Very long, but I am determined to get help …?
Question asked by Big L : Very long, but I am determined to get help high …? mjgnosis
Recently, the anger was a common tradition, not only in my household, but the barriers of my mind. I was an angry person all my life, but it’s a trend I want to lose connections with. It’s not fun to be an angry person all the time, and it is generally not worth the time and effort (though I continue to do so for some bizarre reason). My mind is obviously to avoid some kind of peace that I want to get, and yet this sanctuary of “peace” seems out of reach. I want to be happy, positive, and social – these exploits are available to every person on this planet, but why are they seemingly avoid me? I’ll start by explaining that I am fully aware that many people around me, and in distant lands have many … much worse than me. However, my emotions are expressed are continually sad, aggressive, and angry, so why should (or should) I want to live like this? This is not a lifestyle agréable.Tout first, my main mode of anger consists of meaningless activities that mean absolutely nothing, and I know that. I often find myself cursing God and distorted to lose a video game or watching my favorite football, baseball, or basketball teams lose. It is ridiculous to get angry about these things, but sometimes my anger is not controllable. It’s quite disappointing that I totally disregard any respect for God on a meaningless game (which is supposed to be fun, correct)? However, I often display extreme competitive attitude, which is often wrong in anger and arrogance. The solution to this is unknown – maybe you can help me to guide. I was in therapy before, and the results were faux.Deuxièmement, my main source of sadness is composed of my physical appearance and how I feel (physically and mentally). I am constantly reminded how ugly I am, and that’s something I’m embarrassed. I am embarrassed because I think having good appearance is the basis of all success. I am embarrassed that I can not ever get a girlfriend. I am embarrassed that I let this little aspect of control (?) My life. My eyes are puffy + red, and my skin is pale and translucent. To add, I have severe dry skin that spreads to my face and body (and my hair is dry), not the lotion does not work. I want to remove these problems, because they make me uncomfortable. I’m tired of being nervous, agitated, and itchy because of these problems. Hopefully, some products will help me, but I do not contain the knowledge of what to acheter.Troisièmement, I am arrogant, but not confident. I am often avoiding competitive events in the avoidance of waste. I do not want to express my full potential, because I am afraid of failure. I’m afraid of what people say about me. These insecurities are not positive, they are the ones I want to go with. I want to be able to say “Hey, I gave it my all today!” instead of being lazy at all times (not motivated) to all the goals I want to achieve. I do not know how to regain the motivation that I have eu.Comme I said, these problems are not urgent for the typical person, if they are very important to me. They made me depressed young man (I’m currently 17). I do not want to live like this anymore, and I’m hoping for a second chance at life. I know I will not receive a response life-changing here, but maybe I can get a step towards my goal by listening to the advice you’ve saved with me .- Thank you … Best answer :
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I know how it can be. I used to be angry all the time too. You are obviously smart enough to see what happens, which is the best place to start. This is not an easy thing to take a hard look at yourself and not like you voyez.J I found that my anger and frustration was about as much good as a bald tire in a mess … it just goes around and makes you go further and deeper into your problems. You need to find forgiveness for anything that made you that way. You mentioned that you are angry about various trivial things in your life, it might be something you simply are not dealing with overflow into your life quotidienne.Si you really want change, the only thing you have to do is take action, regardless of how it can be. It was almost my fall, I was able to identify the problem, but just sit and meditate on how to get out of there. Make some goals, even if its smaller plays a video game without being angry …. lose on purpose, realize that not everything has to be just so. I hope this helps you …. you’re young enough to make the changes you want, and I pray that you succeed in your endeavors .- Another note, my uncle had a skin disease similar to yours, he thought he had eczema It took some pills for yellow toenails and it cleared his skin up, just discovered that it was a fungal infection
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firstly, i didnt read all ur question. and this isnt because i dont want to know but because ive also been there before. what worked for me is deciding what i wanted in this life. i knew that i didnt want to be angry, like my parents, or shout or flip over silly things. i once turned to drugs thinking that this was to be my freedom. yet i was a prisoner of that freedom. i tried to break out by attempting suicide, yet, for some reason which is beyond me, i survived. i knew at this point that my life was meant for a purpose.
i couldnt fit in at home. there was no niche for me. why was i still alive? i decided to try a new country. i have had hard times. i have begged for money, have hitch-hiked for thousands of miles through europe. have been given a place to stay, food to eat. i busked with my guitar in -10c and made money to eat. i have been jobless, homeless and penniless. yet i am still here. i fell in love with a selfless girl and even though we finished she is my best friend in this world. i have found work in bars and hotels and tour companies. i am now a chef.
when i started i was inside a shell. my shell, self imposed and imposed cos of my family. i am not a good lookin guy, and i was never very confident. i had crooked teeth and a bony body. my drense sense ws bloody awful. yet something glimmered in that darkness, and what i saw was my secret. i tell u that i saw what was really beautiful in the world. and it wasnt me, for sure, although it was everything u could need to know. it was that proverbial light at the end of a tunnel. i saw what the world was, and yet i discovered who i was. i was they shyest person you could meet, so within myself yet for all the wrong reasons. now i speak 4 languages, including my own, and i have a wealth of knowledge and some very good freinds that i can really rely on.
what i am saying to u is that u will find ur way, and u will find ur niche. life gives u things that sets u on a path to where u are supposed to go. george harrisons post humous song, any road, says that if u dont know where u are going, any road will take u there. i have gotten to where i am -(and i mean happy inside, and that i no longer need to feel the cold, or play my guitar in the street or hitchhike and apart from that one time i havent begged since) -if i wasnt supposed to come this way.
life will lead u there, my freind. good luck, peace